Woman Says Her Best Friends Robbed Someone and Giggled About It — Then Called Her “Delusional” When She Confronted Them

An 18-year-old college student says she knew her old friends had been making bad decisions. They had been fighting people, destroying property, and generally moving in a direction that made her uneasy.

But she did not expect one late-night phone call to end two friendships in one week.

She explained in a Reddit post that she had been friends with Ally for five years. Ally had even been her foster sister off and on during that time, so this was not some casual school acquaintance. Ally was close to her family. The bond had history.

She had also been friends with Ally’s partner, Lana, for about two years.

After the poster moved away for college, Ally and Lana stayed in the area and became inseparable. From the outside, the relationship looked toxic, and the poster had already noticed their behavior getting worse. She had been growing apart from Ally for a while, but she still thought she and Lana were on decent terms.

Then Olivia called.

Olivia was a mutual friend who had not been getting along with Ally, so the call itself was already unusual. When the poster answered, Olivia was sobbing.

A bunch of things were missing from her apartment: expensive clothes, UGGs, a camera, an iPhone, jewelry, and other items totaling well over $1,000.

There was no sign of forced entry. No broken windows. No busted locks. Nothing that looked like a stranger had smashed their way in.

That detail mattered because Olivia said only one other person had a key to the apartment: Ally.

Then there was another detail that pointed in the same direction. Olivia had seen Lana peek into her workplace that day and then get into Ally’s car.

The poster said she had no words. She told Olivia she had not talked to Ally in months.

Olivia texted Lana, and the reply seemed shady. Then Olivia checked cameras at her job and saw that it was indeed Ally and Lana.

Olivia called police, but according to the poster, police were no help.

That left everyone angry and stressed. The poster’s mother was upset because Ally was like a daughter to her. The poster was exhausted by the pattern of trouble. And Olivia was the one left with a ransacked apartment and thousands of dollars in belongings gone.

Two days later, Lana texted the poster asking to FaceTime.

The poster answered.

Lana started explaining that Olivia was accusing her of different things. The poster cut through it and asked her directly: did she and Ally do it or not?

Lana paused.

Then she said yes.

According to the poster, what made it worse was that Lana was almost smiling and giggling while admitting it. She even commented on how messy Olivia’s apartment was, as if the whole thing was funny gossip instead of a crime.

That reaction hit the poster hard.

Stealing from someone is already bad. Laughing about stealing from someone who works for everything she has makes it feel even colder. The poster called Lana privileged and told her it was immoral to take from someone who had not had things handed to her.

Lana ended the call.

The poster then sent a group message to both Lana and Ally, telling them what they did was not okay and that they needed to return the items and get themselves together.

Instead, Ally added her to a group call with Lana and immediately played dumb.

Ally pretended they had not done it.

When the poster said Lana had just told her the truth, Ally called Lana delusional. Then Lana flipped too, saying she had not told the poster anything.

That sudden denial made the poster even angrier. Less than an hour earlier, Lana had allegedly given her a play-by-play of the robbery. Now both of them were calling her delusional, asking if she was high or on drugs, and attacking her character instead of dealing with the theft.

They also started insulting her boyfriend, which had nothing to do with the situation.

That is when the poster ended the call.

She told Lana never to text her again because the friendship was over.

The betrayal was not only that her friends allegedly robbed someone. It was that one of them admitted it, laughed about it, and then both tried to make the poster feel crazy for repeating what had been said.

That kind of reversal can be dizzying. One minute someone confesses. The next minute they deny it and accuse you of being the unstable one.

For the poster, the friendship could not survive that.

She did not want people in her life who stole from others, refused to own up to it, and then tried to manipulate everyone around them when confronted.

By the end, she had lost two friends, but the tone of the post made it clear she did not think there was much left worth saving.

If Ally and Lana could allegedly rob Olivia, laugh about it, and lie to the poster’s face minutes later, then the friendship had already changed into something she no longer recognized.

Commenters mostly told the poster that ending the friendships was the right move. Many said people who steal from one friend’s apartment are not safe friends to keep around anyone’s family, home, or belongings.

Several commenters urged her to tell police what Lana allegedly admitted during the FaceTime call. Even if police had not been helpful at first, a confession to another person could matter if Olivia kept pushing the case.

A lot of people focused on the gaslighting during the group call. They said it was alarming that Lana allegedly confessed, then immediately denied it and joined Ally in calling the poster delusional.

Others said the poster should warn her family and make sure Ally and Lana no longer had access to the house or anyone’s keys.

The strongest reaction was that the poster did not lose good friends. She found out who they had become before they had a chance to steal from her too.